Our Relationship is About To Change (EEEK!)

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Shane Burcaw is the author of several award-winning books about disability. He is the President of a nonprofit organization called Laughing At My Nightmare, and a renowned public speaker who has performed across the country at places such as Harvard University, The University of Florida, The University of Connecticut, Princeton University, and many more.
Hannah Aylward graduated from Carleton College, where she studied Sociology and Anthropology. She films and edits the “Squirmy and Grubs” vlog, which has over 670,000 subscribers on MNmore. Hannah has spoken at prestigious universities and Fortune 500 companies alike about the realities of ableism. On her popular Instagram account, she advocates for acceptance of all people and works to improve the way society thinks about disability.
Shane and Hannah have been together for over four years. They got married in September of 2020 in the midst of a global pandemic in their backyard, with their officiant conducting the ceremony via Zoom. Their interabled relationship often confuses people, because much of society still cannot fathom people with disabilities being involved in loving, intimate relationships. Anyone who watches these episodes will quickly see their relationship is just as “normal” as any other. Sure, Hannah helps Shane use the bathroom and brush his teeth, but those activities do not detract from the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection they experience together.


  1. superbrownbrown


    6 цагийн өмнө

    "All kinds of information that I would've just made up if they had not informed me." 😂 I like when Shane sneaks these humorous/sarcastic comments into regular conversation. 👍 Will Shane get to try any of the wines before Hannah gets into them? 🤔

  2. pretty pumpkin

    pretty pumpkin

    8 цагийн өмнө

    Shane, have you ever thought about taking testosterone or steroids.. I know you have enough man juice but you could try to do what bodybuilders do to build up your whatever muscle intervention you have. You never know what could work. Sometimes doctors don't think of simple things or simple solutions.

  3. pretty pumpkin

    pretty pumpkin

    8 цагийн өмнө

    I can't imagine how much these remote control arms will approve over the next few years it's going to be amazing for Shane 😉

  4. pretty pumpkin

    pretty pumpkin

    8 цагийн өмнө

    They denied you initially???? Omgoodness!!!!

  5. Patti Neal

    Patti Neal

    10 цагийн өмнө

    I love these two

  6. Heba Daoud

    Heba Daoud

    16 цагийн өмнө

    So happy to hear this ❤️ it touched my heart that the first thing you want to do is take care of Hannah. That makes me emotional. 🥺

  7. Link Day

    Link Day

    Өдрийн өмнө

    Shane congratulations on your upcoming robot arm. I hope it helps to make drastic changes in your independence..yay! Woot woot 💝

  8. spawderdam


    Өдрийн өмнө

    Thats so great!! Congratulations on your terminator arm 😁

  9. sheepluvslambs


    Өдрийн өмнө

    Such a cute couple.

  10. Teri Lynn Wilkins

    Teri Lynn Wilkins

    Өдрийн өмнө

    I only have one arm (the other is recently paralyzed from a motorcycle accident) there are silicone mats that stick to the counter n your bottle will stick to them ( but they’re not sticky, just silicone) and It’s how I open everything,! Don’t know what I’d do without them. Amazon. Cheap!

  11. Lisa Pagliei-ventura

    Lisa Pagliei-ventura

    Өдрийн өмнө

    You're such a beautiful couple and really, really great people. Love you, love this video!

  12. Cassie Bourgeois

    Cassie Bourgeois

    Өдрийн өмнө

    Those bloopers were hilarious!!! You guys are awesome!!!! Screw the haters!!! I hate that you guys even have think about them!

  13. troublemakingpups


    Өдрийн өмнө

    Congratulations Shane!!!! The arm will be a great help to both of you. I hope it opens a whole new world of freedom.

  14. Ashley R

    Ashley R

    Өдрийн өмнө

    I’m dying at the bloopers!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  15. Matthew


    2 өдрийн өмнө

    hi guys, I want to recommend a series that you can watch on your free time. it is called "Avatar the last airbender" (the series, not the movie!) It is a wonderful animated series that has a lot of depth into it, very fun to watch. Contains a lot of humor, variety of interesting characters - each with its own theme, deep and complex moments that will shift the whole story making it way more interesting and that's just the tip of it. hope you guys will check it out, wish you the best :) note: I'm talking about the animated series, not the movie! that's important. I also Recommend watching "Gravity falls"

  16. Catherine Inghram

    Catherine Inghram

    2 өдрийн өмнө

    Oh man thank goodness you were joking, I was jumping through mental hoops to not feel judgemental, was almost there, lol

  17. Hollie Forbes

    Hollie Forbes

    2 өдрийн өмнө

    I am so happy for you guys!!! I have been praying for Shane to get approved. Love the bloopers

  18. Lucille Avakian

    Lucille Avakian

    2 өдрийн өмнө


  19. Cheryl Winters

    Cheryl Winters

    2 өдрийн өмнө

    Watching these videos make me feel happy 😊 lovely couple 💑

  20. Sue Bieri

    Sue Bieri

    2 өдрийн өмнө

    How about you Squirmey n Grubs, become entrepreneur inventors! You are both intelligent, innovative and clever! I will give you a little idea, to get you started. (i will whisper, so nobody hears🤫 but you... how about disability friendly beer caps 🤗🤔?) Okay, quickly run to get a patent or lawyer, or whatever you need. That bit about the bully stix sure fooled me, at 1st! Till I started really thinking about them being dehydrated bull, uh, shall we say "parts". Then, peanutbutter or no peanutbutter, I couldn't see it 🐃! Hysterical!! You 2 are hysterical, really. Although it made sense, to strengthen his jaw.. plus I recall when we were kids, my brother used to eat Doggy Donuts, and he actually liked 'em! Ps. Let me know if you need more ideas❣ Pss. I love your dog💜 ! (and the 2 of you !!🧡💚)

  21. Angela May

    Angela May

    2 өдрийн өмнө

    Something like a base that holds it still.... like ANOTHER arm.... get two!!! 😁 I'm super pleased you got approved xxx

  22. dazanaki


    2 өдрийн өмнө

    YAY FOR SHANE!!!! This will allow you to do so much more

  23. Olivia Santone

    Olivia Santone

    3 өдрийн өмнө

    So happy for Shane and Hannah!

  24. Rebecca Pressley

    Rebecca Pressley

    3 өдрийн өмнө

    Just realized how deformed his ears are

    • Rebecca Pressley

      Rebecca Pressley

      10 цагийн өмнө

      But he’s just sooo ... gross

    • elizabeth


      Өдрийн өмнө

      youre so weird

  25. Mahamata McGuire

    Mahamata McGuire

    3 өдрийн өмнө

    Yes, I did want to see if she was pregnant...☹️ Wah. No announcement yet! But at least, thank you God, Shane is NOT chewing on pig penises! YAY! Congratulations on your insurance approval. That’s great and I hope it all goes wonderfully for you!

  26. Yvonne S

    Yvonne S

    3 өдрийн өмнө

    Congrats! Love the bloopers! 😂

  27. Isabelle Morales

    Isabelle Morales

    3 өдрийн өмнө

    Here to Increase channel engagement 😁

  28. rhonda powell

    rhonda powell

    3 өдрийн өмнө

    Your bloopers are my night time entertainment! I’m a 64 year old Mom, Grandma, and Great grandma, just love you kids❤️

  29. bluesky426


    3 өдрийн өмнө

    🤔 IF such physical therapy COULD help he facial muscles, then jerky should be on your shopping list. 👍

  30. pfaffbm


    3 өдрийн өмнө

    Congratulations on the JAYCO arm. That will be life changing for both of you.

  31. pfaffbm


    3 өдрийн өмнө

    Loved the bloopers! 😂

  32. Zs


    3 өдрийн өмнө


  33. Liberty Hussein

    Liberty Hussein

    4 өдрийн өмнө

    Such wonderful news! This is going to make a huge difference in your day-to-day function and independence. Do you know the date will be arriving?

  34. Kelly Rogers

    Kelly Rogers

    4 өдрийн өмнө

    Whenever you two start talking about food, I noticed that Hannah starts dazing off into space and licking her lips! LMAO!

  35. Jodi Rieger

    Jodi Rieger

    4 өдрийн өмнө

    So happy for you shane! Congrats

  36. Bridget O'Brate

    Bridget O'Brate

    4 өдрийн өмнө


  37. Teddi Zia

    Teddi Zia

    4 өдрийн өмнө

    Hooray !!!! So glad about the great news. I prayed for this!

  38. Maxine T

    Maxine T

    4 өдрийн өмнө

    Bloopers- too funny 😂 thank you for sharing

  39. Maxine T

    Maxine T

    4 өдрийн өмнө

    So happy for you! ☺️

  40. Lori E

    Lori E

    4 өдрийн өмнө

    Y’all have no idea how much I needed a GOOD laugh 😂 🤣....those bloopers!!

  41. One Love

    One Love

    4 өдрийн өмнө

    I’m actually so excited for you, Shane. 😃 This is going to make such a big difference to your quality of life ♥️ and any of us who have an illness/disability, know that’s what it’s all about. 🙂 I’m so glad the appeal worked🙏🏻 Hannah, enjoy 😉 xo P.S Anyone coming in the comments to see if Hannah is pregnant.... all I will say, is it’s something really exciting 😋

  42. Stacey Barker

    Stacey Barker

    4 өдрийн өмнө

    I'm sooo happy for you Shane, well both of you🥳🙌

  43. Davida Casey

    Davida Casey

    5 өдрийн өмнө

    Am I the only one who thought it was incredibly sweet that the first thing Shane wants to do with his increased strength is make Hannah breakfast in bed? Like that's so cute.

  44. Ietje Siobhán

    Ietje Siobhán

    5 өдрийн өмнө

    Bright Cellars got me really excited, but turns out they do US-based deliveries only ... a shame. I'm now trying to find an equivalent based in my country :D

  45. roger bixley

    roger bixley

    5 өдрийн өмнө

    Hannah is looking as beautiful as ever.

  46. Mitch M

    Mitch M

    5 өдрийн өмнө

    I feel really bad that I have a crush on Hannah ❤️😘

  47. Noyemi Shaklian

    Noyemi Shaklian

    5 өдрийн өмнө

    Congratulations!!!! ❤️😃

  48. Joyce Dominguez

    Joyce Dominguez

    5 өдрийн өмнө

    That's hilarious at the end there

  49. Rebecca Tigerfanatic

    Rebecca Tigerfanatic

    6 өдрийн өмнө

    That is really awesome about getting approved for that robotic arm...u are making such great strides for those of us that are permanently disabled and are living in wheelchairs for the rest of our lives....I am so excited for u, Shane....I can only imagine all the more freedom that u will ne feeling and having...I hope u both & Chloe too are staying safe & healthy!!! Much love!

  50. Chelsea Otte

    Chelsea Otte

    6 өдрийн өмнө

    So happy for you Both! I used to work at a physical therapy clinic and the amount of times I had to appeal a patients care with an insurance company and found out that a retired gynecologist was denying the rehabilitation of a shoulder surgery or something like that was so irritating so I can’t imagine how you guys felt when the appeal was won!! Congrats 😎

  51. Katie Anne

    Katie Anne

    6 өдрийн өмнө

    Perhaps you could try using one of those auto jar openers for people with hand strength issues or arthritis. Not sure if you would be able to use the JACO arm to put that on the jar but might be something to look into.

  52. Kathy Myers

    Kathy Myers

    6 өдрийн өмнө

    “this time they sent it to a dr. “ 😳

  53. LedaMuchomas


    7 өдрийн өмнө

    Great news man..can’t wait to see you lift your first beer!

  54. vickys channel

    vickys channel

    7 өдрийн өмнө

    So happy for you Shane enjoy it when you get it x

  55. Mvrpatriesje1


    7 өдрийн өмнө

    Loved those bloopers 🤣🤣

  56. Pam Smiley

    Pam Smiley

    7 өдрийн өмнө

    Fantastic news!!!

  57. Ardith McKeaigg

    Ardith McKeaigg

    7 өдрийн өмнө

    That's great news.

  58. Kim Fulenwider

    Kim Fulenwider

    7 өдрийн өмнө

    Jazz hands please... 👏

  59. sadderstar


    7 өдрийн өмнө

    I used to sell insurance so if you guys have any questions lemme know.



    7 өдрийн өмнө

    I'm so happy for u Shane!!! Congratulations. U totally deserve it:)

  61. Trish yyy

    Trish yyy

    7 өдрийн өмнө

    A suction cup or two to keep on the counter to put jars onto so you can open!?

  62. Tamara Boden

    Tamara Boden

    7 өдрийн өмнө

    Ahhh you guys!! this is so wonderful! Thrilled for you and how this will make Shane's life easier :)

  63. Leanne Bandte

    Leanne Bandte

    8 өдрийн өмнө

    Ohhh shitttt I cant 😭😭😂😂😂😂😭😂😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

  64. dreamcrone


    8 өдрийн өмнө

    OMG laughing soooo hard at your bloopers. Home alone except for the dog who couldn’t figure out what was wrong with me!!! My face hurts now! Thanks you two!

  65. dreamcrone


    8 өдрийн өмнө

    Don’t feel bad Shane no one knows how insurance works! It changes by the hour!

  66. dreamcrone


    8 өдрийн өмнө

    I’m so happy for you Shane! Now I hope you guys can get the insurance snafu settled!

  67. Carla G.

    Carla G.

    8 өдрийн өмнө

    I really was like "WHAT THE F" whit the dog stick 👀 ¡So funny guys! 😂😂😂

  68. Roger Bonilla

    Roger Bonilla

    8 өдрийн өмнө

    Your using the color blue, talking about pee-nut butter and bull penis, WHAT EVIL JEALOUSY NETWORK HAS YOU ON THE PAYROLL OR IS IT YOUR OWN THINKING VIA THE VIOLATING NETWORK?

  69. T Roy

    T Roy

    8 өдрийн өмнө

    Omg!! I had to keep pausing the video because I am laughing so hard I can’t hear Shane. My husband is sleeping next to me. Thankfully he is a sound sleeper!!

  70. Sudz Wissler

    Sudz Wissler

    8 өдрийн өмнө


  71. Brittani Lee

    Brittani Lee

    8 өдрийн өмнө


  72. Sinc_Bales


    8 өдрийн өмнө

    Those bloopers are EVERYTHING!😂🤣♥️

  73. Maryann Sassaman

    Maryann Sassaman

    8 өдрийн өмнө

    Seriously, where do they get all these bull penises( is that a word?.) 😅😅🤣

  74. Alexandra Davisson

    Alexandra Davisson

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    Your bull-oopers were the best, you better th have such fabulous senses of humor, and congrats on the insurance approval!!!

  75. Shawn V

    Shawn V

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    Congrats on the approval! The bloopers... They were fantastic! 😆

  76. Kendall Stump

    Kendall Stump

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    Thats great news but I seriously though yall were going to say pregnant lol I got happy for yall either way!

  77. Jamie Crawford

    Jamie Crawford

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    His Face- Laughing with you- is the Whole World

  78. Debbie George

    Debbie George

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    First I live your intro cartoon thing. Second congratulations on the insurance claim . And the advice about asking who reviewed the claim. Oh I will be using that information for my patients. Very interesting. Third I admit I quickly scanned the comments because i too thought you were pregnant. Oh well. Fourth I love the bloopers. Really what kind of person doesnt like bloopers?

  79. Kimberlini Bambini

    Kimberlini Bambini

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    First off- I’m SO happy to know Shane was approved!!!! What a difference it will make- I’m also disabled and know the hassles of insurance, etc.. And anything to help one be more independent... is absolutely exciting and wonderful! And the bloopers -they are hilarious, please keep doing them. Like Shane very well stated, don’t watch if you don’t care for them🤷🏼‍♀️. Congrats guys! Sending love always- 🧡❤️✌️✨

  80. Christine Flores

    Christine Flores

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    Congratulations Shane!!! The bloopers was hilarious! 🤣😂😅

  81. Monique Dawa

    Monique Dawa

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    That is so awesome! Congratulations ❤

  82. Jimmy Ipock

    Jimmy Ipock

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    I watched this without the audio. Don't do that.

  83. Erin S

    Erin S

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    WOOHHOOO 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  84. Leah Richards

    Leah Richards

    9 өдрийн өмнө


  85. Carly Fasoldt

    Carly Fasoldt

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    Also I’m sure amazon has something to hold jars! I would take a look!

  86. Carly Fasoldt

    Carly Fasoldt

    9 өдрийн өмнө


  87. Michael Saylor

    Michael Saylor

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    You guys suck!!!! I actually believed this for a second, but during your intro jingle I thought, they're messing with us! TOO FUNNY

  88. T. Hall

    T. Hall

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    Hannah and Shane radiated the goodness and hope that we can hope for humanity. What them is always up lifting.

  89. gussplat


    9 өдрийн өмнө

    cONGRATS Shane !! hi Hannah

  90. Amy Jasinski

    Amy Jasinski

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    It's the full 10 seconds of silent laughter in the blooper reel for me

  91. Deaqon James Photography

    Deaqon James Photography

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    Dealing with insurance companies can be such a nightmare. They need to be so much more better regulated.

  92. Jane L

    Jane L

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    Oh my goodness, I peed my pants a little laughing so hard at the Bloopers!!!

  93. Robin Bryant

    Robin Bryant

    9 өдрийн өмнө

    I seriously can't wait to see your kids' personalities! I know that they will be class clowns, in the best way.

  94. Heather Sepulveda

    Heather Sepulveda

    9 өдрийн өмнө


  95. Cerridwen Hall

    Cerridwen Hall

    10 өдрийн өмнө

    Im so happy for you both! You defeat the odds and move on...you’re an inspiration to me...thank you for Sharing. Love you both.

  96. MGS


    10 өдрийн өмнө

    Awesome news to win that appeal! A true life changer❣️👍👍👍👍👍

  97. Terry Chancellor

    Terry Chancellor

    10 өдрийн өмнө

    HAHAHAHAHA!!!! You two crack me up!!!! So happy the insurance came through!!! YAY!!! I feel like I learn so much from your channel. Blessings!!

  98. Steph F.

    Steph F.

    10 өдрийн өмнө

    These bloopers had me laughing outloud for minutes straight. Im losing it 🤣

  99. thefckyrselffairy1


    10 өдрийн өмнө

    Congratulations Shane! You deserve the jaco arm. So happy for you dude 👍 You 2 never fail to raise my spirit and my mood. Love and respect 🇬🇧👌🧚💞

  100. Ian Smith

    Ian Smith

    10 өдрийн өмнө

    You guys use click bait. It's annoying. I use to watch. And now it all about hannah's looks and her body. Blah blah blah. Its really Annoying. And the way he fake laughs sometimes. It's.. too much. I don't even enjoy this channel anymore. Anyway good luck. My little opinion doesn't matter. But I'm sure others see this. Bye